1 Corinthians 13:4

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."

 

I first heard that during the wedding day of my cousin, really I was just an entourage gown collector when I was little, attending weddings and so as a wedding musician, I hear that on and on and I have never understood that, not before- until this day.... 
That is the very perfect description of what love is or what love should be and ever could be. It seems so simple to follow just by reading it but wrong.

5 years ago was the TIME I THOUGHT "THIS IS IT" 
-I kept telling my friends and the crowd that "No, I feel he's for me. It may not too soon as today but I know one day his heart will be mine. That he will chose me.'' All based on what he had made me feel. I was so young and immature about this course in life. My understanding was so narrow. I was darn innocent. Funny to think that I was claiming someone who has never been really attached or devoted to me. Yes twas just a total narrow mutual understanding between us. Realizing that I was never really in-loved with him.

10 months ago was the TIME I THOUGHT "THIS SHOULDN'T BE IT" and that's it. By examining what I've gone through, I think that was the exact quote to describe how I loved. I lifted up everything to God.

For those of you who have met yours, congratulations and hold it up. Consider to upgrade your relationship sometimes. Try to create your plans for the future and how to build your life together.  Maintain each other.  Always be prepared. For you who haven't just keep praying, continue to make yourself a better person and it will come at the most right time. 

When you have it and you feel like it's that, work on it. Be his/ her best companion, be very honest and work on your partnership, it's hard to stay in love I promise you. To love is to experience everything, there's no guarantee that everything will go as smooth as you want. But it guarantees you of a great value and incomparable happy life.

Will you and your partner stand the test of time? Everything is actually up to you two.

Facts:

• True love grows and endures.  
• True love doesn’t have to be a fairytale romance where every moment is a “happily ever after” experience.
• True love undergoes difficulties and overcomes. 
• True love is an experience forged in the fire of life. 
• It is a lesson in patience and perseverance with rewards that last a lifetime.